TEACHING
TECHNIQUE-Coach
This will not work for everybody. But it worked for a dear friend of
mine. Let us just call him Bob. Bob was the only Caucasian in an all
Black school. He was also the only male.
He was 5’6” and weighed 130 pounds. He explained to me that the female
teachers in the school were excellent teachers and they were demanding
and hard on the students. He said they were ideal mother figures and
ruled with an iron hand. He explained that he was reluctant to use any
of the techniques the ladies used. He further explained that they could
successfully use a GLARE that he couldn’t duplicate. Addition they did a
thing with their neck and head he called “the black lady neck thing”
that wasn’t about to try.
He asked with great sincerity did I have any suggestion on how he could
become more effective both as a teacher and how he could get a more
disciplined environment in his classroom.
My suggestion was to use this technique. He should inform all his
students to call him COACH BOB. Keep in mind there were no athletic
teams at this school. If they asked what do you coach?, he was to reply,
”life and learning”.
He was told to carry a large white handkerchief in his back pocket. It a
student acted improperly he was told to throw it on the floor and
exclaim 15 minute penalty. The student would hand to sit in the back of
the room alone for 15 minutes.
The concept is that coaches like Pat Riley, Denny Crum, Red Auerbach,
and Phil Jackson have been loved and accepted by black athletes. Race
did not seem to matter.
So coach is a key that can open the race door. This concept worked for
this teacher. He became not only effective as a disciplinarian but loved
as a person and a teacher.
Last year he was voted teacher of the year at his school.
As I side note, I was invited to a six grade graduation ceremony.
I paid particular attention to the teachers. After the ceremony I
overheard three veteran black teachers saying, “ I am glad this group is
gone”. I further witnessed a first year white teacher in tears along
with her graduating students in tears, all screaming passionately that
they were going to miss each other so much. The point is I don’t believe
that race has to be a limiting factor. I believe that if you work it
correctly, the word TEACHER transcends RACE. |