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WHAT DID YOU EXPECT TO HAPPEN?

 

IF WHAT HAPPENS DOES NOT MATCH WHAT YOU THOUGHT

WOULD HAPPEN...YOU WILL BE MISERABLE

 

ACTION STEP:

EXAMINE YOUR EXPECTATIONS

FIRST. IDENTIFY WHAT YOUR EXPECTATIONS REALLY ARE

SECOND. DETERMINE IF THEY ARE REASONABLE OR LOGICAL

THIRD. CONTROL / MODIFY YOUR EXPECTATIONS

 

EXAMPLE: YOU GET UPSET IF SOMEONE LIES TO YOU. HUMANS LIE. THE QUESTION IS WHY.