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Choosing A Mate

Consider you want a wife (I will  get to a Husband later). What do you look for in a woman? I really think most men select a potential wife based on bulging body parts. I asked a guy once why did you choose your lady, he exclaimed  " that big booty". I was saddened by that reply. I replied "all that means is that she sits high on the commode"

DO NOT CHOOSE A WIFE BASED ON BULGING BODY PARTS or how good the sex is or how good she cooks. Consider looking not for a wife but rather a TEAMMATE. What goals does she have? Will those goals match yours.

I suggest you try this. Ask your potential serious mate "where do you see yourself five years from today."

I asked one beautiful lady that question and she said " My biological clock is ticking and I want 4 children" I ran from where she was sitting with the greatest of haste.

I asked another lady the same question, She replied " I will be in Africa doing missionary work" again I left her area.

 

DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE PEOPLE.

FIND A WIFE THAT IS "COOL" ALREADY

 

For selecting a husband, what criteria do you search for?

A  JOB IS NOT GOOD. A CAREER IS BETTER

Do you know the difference? A job is manual labor of a very general type. A career is a set of specific marketable skills that many companies are willing to pay for.

I noticed a lady asking a man this question. "What's  your sign?"

A better question would be what is your E-Mail address? No E-Mail address, no computer MOVE ON, HE IS NOT VIABLE

A still better question is "how big is the hard drive on your computer"?

or "What is the latest book you have read?"